Baqiyatallah University of Medical Sciences International Journal of Behavioral Sciences 2322-1194 16 1 2022 04 01 The Study of the Lived Experience of Tolerance for Differences in Satisfied Marriages: A Phenomenological Study 55 60 150386 10.30491/ijbs.2022.324752.1742 EN Reza Khojasteh Mehr Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran Kolsoum Kariminejad Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran 0000-0002-5976-8060 Gholamreza Rajabi Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran Dorothy O&#039;Neill Department of Psychology, Adjunct Professor in California State University, Northridge, USA. Journal Article 2022 03 26 <strong>Introduction: </strong>As people enter a marital relationship, differences inevitably emerge. Tolerance for differences is a phenomenon that many people may experience when they get married. The current study aimed to investigate the lived experience of tolerance for differences in satisfied marriages.<br /><strong>Method:</strong> The present study was a descriptive phenomenology psychological research. The sample consisted of 11 married people who had experienced tolerance for differences and were selected in a purposeful and snowball manner in 2019-2020. A semi-structured interview was used to collect data. Data gathering continued until the data saturation stage.<br /><strong>Results:</strong> According to the results of this study, the experience of tolerance has six constituents, which are: love and respect for spouse and family, consulting in life, division of duties and roles, understanding of differences, patience and forgiveness and support of couples' families.<br /><strong>Conclusion:</strong> The results of the study indicated that differences and disagreements between couples do not necessarily lead to conflict, but rather, these differences are experienced as an acceptance through tolerance. https://www.behavsci.ir/article_150386_89730c7d32da25f647426c2edeec9a5e.pdf